In my last year of seminary I took a two quarter course at the Franciscan School in Berkeley, California, called "Church and Sacraments." This was a basic class for Roman Catholic students preparing for the priesthood. I took it to fill in a gap in my education in the realm of what used to be called "pastoral theology." That is a course on thinking theologically about the everyday activities of a local church. Up to that time I had taken wonderful courses in Systematic Theology, with an emphasis on Process Theology. I enjoyed the class.
When we were talking about Eucharist, or Communion, one of the Roman Catholic students remarked about preparing children for First Communion. "I have no trouble convincing them that it (little white wafer) is the body of Christ," he remarked. "I do have trouble convincing them that it is bread." This remark has stuck with me. In an adult world we may have difficulty in the theological interpretation of things while in a child's world this is not the issue.
I have taken this as a guide to emphasize the human qualities of baby Jesus as we talk about Christmas in the church. Diapers for Baby Jesus is a way to emphasize the incarnation in a concrete way.
One way we do this at the Church of Peace is by collecting disposable diapers for low income persons from our neighborhood who come to the church seeking emergency assistance. We have a food pantry. We know that disposable diapers are often an expensive item, and we keep a supply of the various sizes around to tide a family over. We have fun talking about the "bottom line," as we seek donations. We can collect almost enough diapers at Christmas to have a supply on hand for the whole year long.
We ask that families and children bring packages of disposable diapers for baby Jesus and place them under the Christmas trees in the front of the sanctuary. This year, in addition to collecting diapers we also collected cel phones for Abused Women, buckets and mops for refugee families, new children's books for the Book Nook at our neighborhood school, and personal items for seniors in a local nursing home. We get a pretty strong dose of the incarnation and the needs of the poor and often forgotten.
What I find marvelous is the great collection of trees, poinsettias, candles, diapers, buckets, mops, Mary, Joseph, lamb, angels, Jesus, children's books and cel phones that festoon the chancel area of the sanctuary. I think it makes a strong positive statement about the nature of our faith and spirituality.